Q&A: I Feel Like I’m Stuck Between Two Worlds

Q&A: I Feel Like I’m Stuck Between Two Worlds

Dear Jennifer: Things in my life have not been going well for the past 3 or 4 years. 

Then about a month ago I decided to take control of these situations by setting intentions 

for what I wanted and my life started getting better. A friend of mine said that I’m 

going through the ascension process. Now I am in a lot of stress and discomfort, 

and I feel stuck somewhere in between my old life and my new life. What is going on 

and why didn’t I keep the feeling of being in control and watching my life get better?

Jennifer’s Answer:  You are not doing anything wrong and it would be nice if this process 

was linear, we started at the beginning and then we were at the end and it was all over. 

But our transformation, evolution, and ascension are not linear, they are part of the 

evolutionary spiral that takes us around the same issues, always at different levels, so 

we can make the necessary adjustments in our energy, beliefs and thoughts, to integrate 

the energy into our lives. 

What you are feeling is part of this process and because you are in between worlds, 

you are in a powerful place to make new choices, although that is not how you feel 

right now and I’ll explain why.

Our life path is based on what we choose from all of the potentials and possibilities 

that are available to us in each moment. There are no better or worse choices and 

we cannot make choices that we aren’t ready for, meaning that we are not aligned with. 

And each step forward we make, as we choose something new for our lives, we bring 

all of our life energy and experiences with us into that choice. And this is where 

you are now.

You feel the stress and discomfort because you are in between both worlds, your old life 

and the new one.  You have made choices you are not fully integrated with yet and 

whose energies do not fit well together and with what is currently in your life.  

Now you have to make the even more uncomfortable choices of discovering and then 

releasing the things that no longer have a place in your life, according to the energy of 

your new choices. So the stress isn’t over yet but it will lessen once you have decided 

which path you want to take, how you are going to integrate this energy, which includes 

receiving and releasing, and start to integrate and resonate with these new choices.

Just so you know, this will happen each time you make a shift in your choices that aligns 

you with new potentials. You have to decide what you are going to allow into your life, 

how comfortable you are with it, and make decisions about how you will align with it 

and identify what does not resonate with it. 

Then you will release those things, people, situations, beliefs, emotions, thoughts and 

energy, that are not aligned with your new potential, which is the uncomfortable

part.  It won’t be so uncomfortable in the future because you will be more familiar 

with the process.

And this is part of a big life lesson for you too, there are many karmic issues around you 

not being in charge of your life, giving your energy and power away to others and then 

what happens when you stop doing that and take your power back. It is a little 

uncomfortable for you to learn to say no, to have your own power and to be in control 

of your life but because this is what you have decided to do, it is time for you to experience 

your life from this perspective. 

Be gentle with yourself, take this one step at a time and trust your guidance and 

inner knowing because it will help lead you to the joy you seek.

 

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